How I may be able to help you live a happy & fulfilling life ?
Because of what I have experienced over 40 plus years, having survived and endured the darkest days, weeks and months when my sanity and very existence was seriuosly threatened and at stake, and each time with God's grace, healing and blessings .... I had the courage and strength to overcome my depressions, emptiness, loneliness, confusion, pain, guilt and loss. Slowly but surely, I began to understand and see the bigger picture ... where God is the Master Painter, and I was merely a very small part of his wonderful masterpiece.
I understood why he had not answered all my prayers (in the timing and ways which I had wanted and thought was best). God was slowly but surely through my life's experiences and sufferings, shaping and moulding me .... The Master Sculptor, working away with great tenderness and love, to create a Perfect Me !
Over the years, I have learn't and experienced humility, forgiveness, to be accepting and tolerant of everyone. I have even learn't to love the people in my corporate workplace who have hurt me very badly and affected my professional working life and career at senior management levels, (just as Jesus have said and taught "to forgive and love your enemies".
We do not have to like someone, what they have done or their personality ... we do not have to associate or be anywhere near these people, but we are asked by God to forgive and love. We can pray for them, we can let go of all hurts, anger and resentment ... thus setting both ourselves and them free.
I have learn't to trust, hope ... to be positive, to be strong and courageous. I am able to count my blessings each day ! and most of all I have learn't what True Unconditional Love is. I have started to relate to others and love more genuinely with compassion, understanding and acceptance.
So, it will be a great blessing for me to be able to reach out, support, help and love you as my very special, unique and precious fellow traveller on Earth's journey. I would love to give freely of myself and my time to be a genuine friend to anyone and everyone in the following ways;
Ways in which I may be able to help and support you
To just listen to you, just to be around with you whenever you really need
someone
To understand you & your circumstances and help in practical ways ...
sharing my experiences & learning
To be a friend in supporting you when you are going through tough, confusing
and difficult times
To provide my thoughts, suggestions and advise when these are sought
and/or are necessary
To respect you, care for and love you as my precious fellow human being
To help, teach and encourage you .... to trust, hope and love,
in spite of life's sufferings and difficulties
To motivate you, to share my learnings, experiences of overcoming adversity,
to be positive & happy
To help, encourage & support you to realise your life's potential and
better understand your life's purpose
To help in setting you free from anger, hatred, resentments, unforgivess,
indifference and negativity
To help and assist you in experiencing joy, happiness, contentment,
peace and love
To help bring back your vigour, enthusisam, energy, purpose and direction in life
To share with you the many insights and revelations which God has
given me over the years
To teach you to discern between what is genuinely good& the superficial
things of this world
To alert you to the many dangers of following the world's ways, what the world
portrays as good and desirable ... success in career, relationships which are
self centred & selfish, the modern day focus on "individual freedom and liberty"
... to be whoever you want to be, say and do whatever you feel is right without
telling you about real life consequences. All these making people more
"Self Centred", and away from what Jesus showed and taught us to be
"God Centred" and "Others First".
To pray for you, your work, family, friends & relationships
To share the joy and love of God & Jesus with YOU